A woman who works in ANY capacity for Planned Parenthood or who mentions that yeah sure, she had one or more abortions, says she is not the least bit sorry and takes offense when you are disturbed by that knowledge will, inevitably hurt you to the soul one day. Without total conversion she simply can't help herself. Having paid someone to slaughter her own little baby she can now do anything. Run away.
Do not marry the perpetual damsel in distress. The woman who needs you to save her from herself will bring painful drama to your life forever.
Don't marry an unbeliever thinking that it will convert them. Missionary dating and marriage rarely work and the cases where it did work owe it to divine intervention. You probably aren't St. Clotilda or the Prophet Hosea so don't go looking for suffering young bro.