Sunday, October 26, 2008

everyday evil

A few years ago a friend of mine had an abortion. Nobody spoke up for the baby except the father, who had no standing at all, and me. I still suspect that I failed that child because I told my friend that no matter what she did I would not abandon her. Looking back on it now I wish that I'd told her that if she had an abortion I'd never speak to her again. It probably wouldn't have done any good, in fact, it probably would've been the worst thing to do, but maybe, just maybe, it would've given that child a chance. Every single day a mother waits and thinks about whether or not to go through with an abortion is a chance. Everyone, including two priests have assured me that no, my original gentle approach was best but I still wonder...



My friend's father, after she'd gone to the abortion clinic tried to comfort her by saying that it was for the best because he would've had to buy a more expensive larger house (if she'd kept the baby) instead of the smaller one he did buy. By having an abortion she saved him thousands of dollars. Gee thanks, Pop. I was stunned by that. A baby's life compared to the extra cost of a five bedroom house.



The devil doesn't appear in black satin and polished horns. If only he did! It would be easy to resist then. Mostly he appears in common, everyday disguises. Usually he looks so banal that we don't even grasp that it's him until the deed is done.



The abortion did not improve my friend's life. She still suffers.

St. Dymphna, pray for us.

St. Gerard, pray for us.

St. Mary of Egypt, pray for us.

St. Pelagia, pray for us.

Bartolo Longo, pray for us.

2 comments:

Jackie Parkes said...

A good reminder of the wiles of satan...

Smiley said...

Hey you did a good thing. But your duty as a catholic is far form over. Talk to your friend help her to go back to confession, we are all sinners it is what we do after we sin that makes all the difference. We can be either like Judas or St Peter both betrayed the Lord but its what they did after that made the difference.
Remind your friend that although the baby is dead the little one is a saint. It is up there in Heaven with the Father and every day every minute of the day the little one prays to the Father and asks the father to give his mommy the chance to repent and come back home. The baby who is a saint does not want the mother to be punished, the baby saint and God both want the mother saved and there is still time to repent as long as we are alive.